ALOIS GRABER

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This is just one big page where I can write all about myself, without feeling the need for it to be useful.

And some day this site will be all that's left of me, so I might as well write my own mini autobiography.

Last updated: 2026-03-10

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MY LIFE PHILOSOPHY

I've always questioned everything and everyone. But one day I realized I didn't need to. I could live the way I wanted to. Actually I still question everything :)

He who learns must suffer. And even in our sleep, pain that cannot forget falls drop by drop upon the heart, until, in our own despair, against our will, comes wisdom through the awful grace of God. (Aeschylus)

I learned not to take the outcome personally. There is no such thing as success or failure. There just are a bunch of moments which follow each other. While I don't take the outcome personally, I care about the outcome a lot.

Here is a question that matters to me: What do you want?

I don't have an ego. This allows me to make some stupid decisions for me personally (like starting platypay, which takes significant legal risk because I consider the problem a worthwhile problem to be solved for the world)

I don't care (at least when I'm not in love (which I haven't been for most of my life except for 3 months when I went on 1 date with my 10/10)). I like to play games. I'm good with spending my days alone. I don't like to spend my days with other humans. To me the human experiment is one big game. I try to maximize total longterm wealth for everyone.

I try to have rock bottom expectations for me and everyone and everything around me. I don't expect anything to work out. I believe things are going to work out but I don't expect them to.

I love to talk 1 on 1 with humans. I try to keep it to under 90 minutes. I would be drained if I were to do more than that.

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